I’ve read that our mind is the most powerful thing we own. I believe
this because we have control over our thoughts and no one can take
that from us. Unfortunately, even though we have the power to control
our minds, we do not. Rather, we let our minds take conrtrol of us.
When we are stressed we play our stress out over, and over in our
heads. For example, someone at our work does something and we get
upset. When this occurs we may replay the scenario in our mind over, and
over again. Then we start to talk to other people about what a
horrible person has done to us.
When you do this you let your mind take over you, and your feelings.
This increases your stress. Why do we dwell on this horrible person,
and this horrible deed, if we dislike this person and this deed so
much, especially if it will increase our anger or ruin our mood? If we just
take control of our thoughts, we can think of people we love, and things we
enjoy. Or, we can focus on the goals that we want in our life.
When we can’t remove our thoughts from something so negative then we are
letting those thoughts, and emotions take over our life. We are
saying, “This insignificant person who I allow to make me angry is
more important to me than the people and the things I love.”
If we think of the things we love, and are grateful for, and think of
the things we want in our life, we choose to change what is important
to us.
You have a choice. You could choose to focus on the negative things
in your life, or on the positive things in you life. You can choose to
focus on what you have and are grateful for, or you can choose to focus
on what you don’t have, and what you are ungrateful for. You could
choose to think of the worst thing that could happen in any scenario,
or you could choose to focus on the best thing that could happen in
any scenario. It is your choice. If you choose the negative you
choose an unhappy mood, an uhappy day, an unhappy week, or even an
unhappy life. And, if you choose the positive, you choose a happy mood,
a happy day, a happy week, and a happy life.
Managing your stress creates success and happiness. If you take
control of your thoughts, you take control of your feelings. If you
take control of your feelings, you take control of your stress, which in turn
creates success and happiness.
The average person may let their minds flow on auto pilot, which may
be full of negative thoughts. Dare to be above the average, and create
a habit of controlling your mind and make your thoughts positive.
Don’t forget to have fun and be playful, it is in your nature.
Elizabeth
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